Menopause Changes What Women Find Attractive In Men, Study Suggests

Both age and menopause appear to influence attraction – but in different ways.

Women’s preferences for masculine features in men shift as they age and transition through menopause, according to research exploring how attraction evolves throughout the female lifespan.

The small study of 122 Polish women aged 19 to 70 found distinct patterns across age groups and menopausal stages. Older women preferred men with fuller beards and lighter builds, while postmenopausal women rated feminized faces as less attractive compared to younger women.

Published in Adaptive Human Behavior and Physiology, the study examined how women at three different life stages evaluated photographs of men that had been digitally altered to show varying degrees of facial masculinity, beardedness, body shape, and muscle mass.

Age Shapes Preferences for Facial Hair and Build

Women’s age emerged as a significant factor in their assessments. Older women rated men with medium and full facial hair as more attractive than younger women did. This preference may reflect associations between beards and maturity, status, and resource acquisition rather than purely reproductive signals.

Light muscularity also became more attractive to older women. Well-built physiques signal genetic fitness and physical strength, traits that younger women in their reproductive years may prioritize. As women age and reproductive concerns diminish, lighter musculature suggesting health and approachability becomes more appealing than intimidating displays of strength.

Menopausal Status Shows Distinct Effects

Beyond age, menopausal status itself influenced some preferences. The research team included 45 premenopausal women, 30 perimenopausal women, and 47 postmenopausal women. Each viewed digitally modified photographs of a 22-year-old male model altered to show different facial structures, amounts of facial hair, body types, and muscle development.

Postmenopausal women rated feminized male faces as less attractive than women in other life stages. This finding is complicated, however, because age alone seemed to push preferences slightly in the opposite direction—older women across the board rated feminized faces as somewhat more attractive, but this effect was small.

Postmenopausal women also showed a trend toward rating V-shaped body silhouettes as less attractive, though this result was weaker and reached only borderline statistical significance. They perceived men with medium muscularity as more aggressive than other groups did. Age and menopausal status had no effect on how women judged social dominance.

What Might Explain These Changes

Hormonal changes during menopause may help explain these shifting preferences. Declining estrogen levels affect not just physical symptoms but potentially also how women perceive and evaluate potential partners. The study didn’t measure hormone levels directly, but the pattern fits with what researchers know about reproductive biology.

During reproductive years, women tend to prefer traits signaling genetic fitness and reproductive success, such as masculinized features, muscular bodies, and aggressive dominance. As women transition through menopause, their priorities may shift toward characteristics supporting long-term relationships and social cooperation rather than reproductive potential.

This aligns with the “grandmother hypothesis,” which explains the extended post-reproductive period in human females. After ovarian function ceases, women may redirect attention from mate selection toward caring for grandchildren and supporting family networks. A postmenopausal woman focuses on helping her daughters raise children rather than seeking partners with the best reproductive genetics.

Understanding Attraction Across the Lifespan

The findings suggest that attraction isn’t static across a woman’s life. What women find appealing in men appears to shift with different life stages in ways that may reflect changing biological priorities.

Researchers carefully modified the photographs to ensure consistent changes across all images. Women evaluated each variation on a 10-point scale for physical attractiveness, perceived aggression, and social dominance. The controlled methodology allowed the team to isolate which specific features drove different reactions across age groups.

The study focused specifically on secondary sexual characteristics—traits like facial structure, body shape, and hair distribution that distinguish males from females beyond reproductive organs. These features serve as biological signals that women may interpret differently depending on their life stage.

Whether a woman is in her reproductive years or post-menopause appears to influence what she notices and values in male appearance, though the mechanisms behind these changes require further research to fully understand.

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